CD14: Random TTC Obsessions...

Ugh I swear as soon as I figure out a solution to 1 issue on this TTC journey another 1 pops up. So as you all know we have 1 ICI vial that we can use since our donors remaining vials are all in quarantine still (boo). Now that our spermies are safely being stored at the RE's office they also offered us a count once they thaw ($90), and for $255 they can prepared the ICI vial for it to be IUI. I have been researching all morning about the difference between ICI & IUI and it seems like IUI is the better option but it also looks like different women have gotten BFPs from different things which makes it super hard to decide which one to go with. DP says no because it is too expensive, but my thought process is that we have gone through all of this preparation and does an ICI match up with everything we are doing (supplements, clomid, trigger)? If we go with the IUI it means we have to do the insemination at the RE office instead of our Naturopath's office which means a more sterile/un-home like place which was our whole reason for seeking out the Naturopath to begin with. But in the back of my mind I just keep thinking, but what if an IUI at the RE's means a BFP? *sigh* Why does this have to be so dang difficult